It isn’t about rigidity.
It isn’t about conformity.
It isn’t about ignoring reality.
It isn’t about losing yourself.
It doesn’t look the same for each person.
It doesn’t remain the same always.
It doesn’t suffocate you.
It doesn’t snatch away your life.
There isn’t one right way.
It doesn’t require having your life figured out.
It doesn’t make your life perfect, with no spots or mess in it ever.
What about this list surprises you or reveals something about your assumptions?